Friday, December 20, 2019

A Balm in Gilead... A Bethlehem in Babylon... Cultivating Hope in the Midst of Despair




No balm in Gilead

A balm is a curative ointment… a healing influence,
And Gilead is, metaphorically, any difficult circumstance.

The season of Peace On Earth, Goodwill Toward Men is upon us again. The multicolored lights blinking all around us, and caroling, come together to create an inescapable sense of celebration. But for many, all these attempts at merry-making make no difference. The despair and destruction that is a constant theme of their reality continues unabated. 

For these members of the human family there are no sweet songs and pretty lights. There is no warmth and no circumstance of comfort. They are not the beneficiaries of any goodwill among men. All they and their kin have come to know is the displacement created by poverty and war. There is an overwhelming sense of hopelessness enveloping them. 

There are no gifts - none to give, none to get. The “gift of life” has become an experience in wretchedness. For them there is no balm in the rocky circumstances of their lives… the physicians have abandoned them.  They feel forgotten in a world currently themed to celebrate the coming of God into the human experience. 

In this Season of Goodwill toward men we are tasked to not forget about them. Their presence among us should shake and disturb us. We should know no rest until their burden becomes our burden… their distress, our distress… their pain, our pain. We should want to do something about their displacement. 

How can we focus solely on the celebration of hope when all some know is despair?

Some of us would rather turn a blind eye and deaf ears to them. Their presence in our reality is inconvenient. The consciousness of their misery spoils our mirthfulness.Well, as inconvenient as it may be, we are required in this season of benevolence to pay attention to their plight. They are here among us, and we should not be allowed to ignore them. Those of us who prosper should stop to reflect about our part, if any, in the ongoing tragedy of these lives. 

This is a season when we should stop and wonder whether we are complicit, knowingly or unknowingly, in the despair created of poverty and violence. We should pause and think about the many ways in which we may be actors in the tragedies that beset the oppressed of our earth.

No Bethlehem in Babylon…

The word Bethlehem means House of Bread.

In a world predicated on the building of Empires, we have often become insensitive to our trampling on the rights of those perceived to be powerless. The rich get richer in many cases as a function of the despair their activities inflict on the lives of others. 

This is a season to pause. It is a time to comfort the afflicted. It is a solemn moment to make the comfortable... uncomfortable. 

Let us not turn a blind eye to our complicity in the destruction and the displacement that haunts the lives of many around us. Let us stop pretending that we can continue to find safety behind the middlemen who do our unwholesome work for us. 

The Presence of God in our midst should force us to confront our priests, our stockbrokers, our political and philosophical henchmen; those who make it convenient for us to live in a world where our hope is predicated on the despair of many. This is no time to ignore the advantages that have accrued to some because of their mistreatment of others… A world in which the top one percent owns over fifty percent of the world's wealth.

 We should stop believing that we can continue to find safety behind our superior armament and those who manufacture and bear them. That day will come when the rock of our self-defense will become inadequate.  Our complicity in forcing what Bob Marley calls “a devil’s illusion” down the throats of the unfortunate shall come back to haunt us. Our faith in our stocks, and in our gold will be shattered. The assumptions on which we build our security will be disastrously shaken.

A More Hopeful Vision

Our world must become better. We must make a space in our hearts for the essential message of this season - Peace on earth, goodwill toward all. That message must take root in our lives and find resonance in all our interactions. 

Bethlehem must become a reality wherever we are. Our journey to the House of Bread begins and ends with our willingness to participate righteously in each others lives. That journey takes place every time Wisdom leads us to abandon those activities that bring grief and pain to our fellowmen. Our lives must become sources of healing to all who have come to know the brokenness of an iniquitous world. 

There is always a balm in Gilead - it materialises when we recognize our role as physicians to each other. Let us begin our work as physicians to each other by recognizing our own brokenness. Let us begin by seeking the repair we each need. The impact we have on others has everything to do with our own inner states. Our lives and the impact we have on others is a reflection of our own inner health… or the lack thereof.

The celebration of the Season of Light has an inner component - It is this… Let us let our light so shine that others may see our righteous work and be inspired to come to that place in their own experience where Heaven and Earth intersect.

That Light of which we speak becomes the Star that we can follow in our search for that place in our experience where God lives. 

Look up, look out; but more importantly… realize that your search for the Sign from Heaven begins within.



And Forgive Us Our Trespasses...

How do we renew ourselves? 
We renew ourselves by renewing our relationships; and the renewal of our relationships happen when we engage in the process of forgiving and being forgiven

This is the most fundamental requirement of any process of personal growth. It is a cornerstone of true liberation, one that comes from an acknowledgement of the truth that we are nowhere near being perfect, and neither are the other folks in, or who have been in our lives. We are flawed, and so are they. The barriers to moving forward are inherent in this fact. 

Yes, this is a self-evident truth of our existence. And it must be dealt with before anything else. Our barriers become stumbling blocks when we attempt to deny that they are there. We have all heard that confession is good for the soul, and I am here to say that it is a cornerstone of our viability as whole persons. Any attempt to build our lives without it will fail.

The stumbling blocks that once characterized our interactions however, can become stepping-stones. This becomes possible when we cultivate the wisdom and courage that are necessary to liberate us from the scandals that hinder our moving forward. As our elders told us; speak the truth…call the devil a liar. 

Release yourself from the overwhelming coercion of not daring to live with the authenticity that being willing to confess your faults brings to your life. 

It is interesting to note here that the terms scandal and stumbling block have the same etiology, that is to say both words have the same root meaning. They are transliterations of the same word. When we are able to speak the truth without malice, we will experience liberation. Truth that is told with healing intent acts as a tonic, as an elixir, and as an antidote. It makes us stronger. It restores our joy. Ultimately, it is the remedy we need for what ails us.

Our redemption hinges on the necessary work of forgiveness. Our restoration to a state of good spiritual and physical health as individuals, as communities, and as a nation is dependent on our ability and willingness to engage in the genuine acts of forgiveness. To paraphrase a well- known piece of wisdom from Nelson Mandela:

To harbor resentment against others is like drinking poison and hoping it will kill our enemies.

Excerpt from:
By - Roy Alexander Graham

Thursday, December 12, 2019

Theater of the Absurd



The Judas Cradle used in the Spanish Inquisition 

Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities —Voltaire

We should be vigilant in our critique, and strident in our opposition to those in positions of leadership among us who demonstrate the kind of amorality that expresses itself as a total disregard for the values on which sustainable societies are built.

Such characters are leeches on the body politic of any society. They are nothing more than vampires who operate in the dark to sustain their vile interests, and the interests of those they serve. They have no regard for anything held sacred by those who work to create and maintain civil society. We have a duty to shine a bright light on them and their deeds, and expose them to the just consequences of their corrupted essence.

How do we recognize them? By their deeds. The truth is uncomplicated. 

When a person who has lied all his life presents himself from some artificial height and declares that he is the most honest person ever… watch out. When a known thief recommends himself as the greatest accountant ever… take heed. When a whoremonger, a rapist and a child abuser presents himself as the best parent in the history of the world… beware. When a hateful, bigoted, nasty purveyor of mischief hoists himself up as a candidate for the highest office in the land… such a person should be rejected out of hand. 

Make no mistake about it, such characters are dangerous. In the interest of civility we must reject them in no uncertain terms. As a society we make a tragic mistake when we cuddle those who care about nothing but their own narrow interests, and the interests of the corrupt co-conspirators who share their twisted sense of reality.

A society that ignores the obvious malfeasance of persons who lie with the utmost ease, and often, will no doubt pay the tragic consequences. Worse still are the consequences for a society in which the absurd behaviors of a corrupted few are rationalized and adopted as convenient norms. The dangers for such a society are underlined in the quote from Voltaire… 

Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities”.

And so the question for us becomes… the dilemma we must confront is: 

What will we become to each other when we accept the corrupt presentations of reality that derive from the absurd behavior of amoral characters?

Be warned. Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities.

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